Majority of people I know care about the environment but they would never inject a phrase like that in a quick exchange about going to wash the car 50m away is my point. In wanting to be a pure heart you missed the actual point.
Yea, of course they wouldn't inject that when going to a car wash.
If the question was: "I want to go to a cafe 50m away. Should I walk or drive?" I would hope that all of my friends would answer quite a bit more pointed than the LLMs: "Walk you lazy son of a ..., why are you even asking?".
Considering that, I'd say that most LLMs are being quite nice.