I don't get this line of reasoning. The average person doesn't grow their own food, everyone has already externalized the things they need to survive.
The difference between going to the supermarket and then cooking your food vs going to eat at a restaurant is just relying on the restaurant existing.
The restaurant existing relies on people visiting it, so by visiting it, you are helping the restaurant and they are helping you. I just cannot agree that this lifestyle is "subsidized" by society. Enabled, sure, but modern lifestyle is enabled by society and that's generally a good thing.
The difference between going to the supermarket and then cooking your food vs going to eat at a restaurant is just relying on the restaurant existing.
The restaurant existing relies on people visiting it, so by visiting it, you are helping the restaurant and they are helping you. I just cannot agree that this lifestyle is "subsidized" by society. Enabled, sure, but modern lifestyle is enabled by society and that's generally a good thing.